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Better Together

Dating websites are obsolete compared to the awesome power of Proximity.

Question:

  • Are you tired of being lonely?
  • Tried online dating and it’s just not working?
  • Told yourself you are too busy to meet people?
  • Gave up on finding your soul mate?
  • Know someone that fit’s all the above?

Time to take a break and let the power of Proximity take over for awhile!

PROXIMITY PRINCIPLE: What is It?

The Proximity Principle says that the closer you are to a group of people, preferably a group that you share something in common (location, hobbies, interests etc) the more likely you are to form friendships, bonds and interpersonal relationships.

Seems blindlingly obvious; but you’d be shocked how quickly people forget the basics.

The Proximity Principle is … THE … most … underrated, underused, mis-understood life skill when it comes to meeting people, having fun, making friends dating etc;

Here’s how to employ the Proximity Principle in three easy steps:

PROXIMITY PRINCIPLE: How to Meet People and Have Fun!

Step one:

Make a list of all your interests, philanthropy, beliefs and hobbies.

Research groups of people that get together on a regular basis in your area.

Step two:

From your list join one or two of these groups and attend.

You are now in Proximity!

Step Three:

Okay, now that you have proximity, the next step is time.

It is here we want you to forget about making friends, dating, finding your soulmate and just have fun.

If you still don’t know what to do?

Immerse yourself in the goals, direction and workings of the group.

The rest will take care of itself.

Trust us!

LOGIC: Proximity Principle in Action

Proximity leads to acceptance. Acceptance leads to affection. Affection leads to fellowship, friendships, unofficial dates, official dates … and … you guessed it: Your true love or soulmate!

“It’s the timing, closeness and proximity”

-Bernard Parks

BONUS: Proximity Principle

  • Since you are so immersed in the group, instead you finding your soulmate, your soulmate often times … finds you!
  • By belonging to a group with similar interests you will always have something to talk about.
  • Networking is a byproduct of Proximity. Be prepared for doors to open.

Helpful Hints

  • It goes without saying here that when we say “Proximity” we mean physical proximity. Not a virtual one … like a chat room, forum, or Social Media.
  • Your success in finding true love or soulmate will increase in direct proportion to your time in proximity.
  • Choose your group wisely. Let your freak flag fly. You’ll do yourself no favors trying to be someone you are not.
  • Be open to the possibilities. Many times the person you’d usually never give a second thought … will rock your world
  • Listen more than you talk.
  • Smile
  • Play nicely
  • Take your time learning about the people and dynamics of the group.
  • Volunteer
  • Look to add your unique value somewhere
  • Never underestimate the charity and humanity of people. Return in like kind.
  • Be prepared for, “We have someone we would like you to meet.” Contrary to popular belief, the people that do this [match making] are very good at it … and … most times … you won’t even know they put someone in your proximity.
  • Yes, let’s have coffee afterwards (don’t miss these after the group get togethers)
  • Remember there is a fine line between serendipity and stalking. The goal here is to let things unfold naturally.

Better Together!

Andrew + TurnMaker Team

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